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Thursday, April 21, 2011

Get While The Gettin's Good

1:31 PM |

More thoughts on settling...

In the seemingly never ending quest to get out there and meet people, often I either get a) no attention at all or b) attention from all the wrong people. Truthfully, as annoying (disheartening) as this is, it does make me wonder. Is this as good as it gets?

How long can you try and hold out for what you think you want before you just throw your hands up and take what you can get? What if what you want doesn't want you? What if what you want is so crazily unrealistic that you'll never find what you're really looking for? Do you just pick the best of the best of the gremlins or do you just resolve to live a life alone?

I simply refuse to believe that these creatures are my only option. So I am going to do like Jessie says and keep hope alive. Primarily because I can't realistically see myself spending the rest of my life with someone I just tolerate. I refuse to believe that this is as good as it gets. If my Mr. Right doesn't show, then so be it. I'll just move to Cali, lipo and botox it up, get myself a young non-english speaking boy toy and a few dogs... :D


ConfidentlySpeaking said...

I agree with this mainly because im a christian and I believe that GOD didn't put us on earth to settle for anything life throws at us although we often do. I let others settle for an unsatisfying mate while I live the single life that doesn't disappoint me. Because I'd rather be insatiable than unfulfilled.