Smart or dating faux pas...
So there has been some talk out there about wether or not it is appropriate for a man to pay for a first date by using a coupon. Depending on who's talking about it you could get some extreme reactions. Some people feel that it cheapens the date and that using one takes away from the whole wine and dine experience. Many times coupons restrict what you can order off a menu and no woman wants to feel like she's being told what she can or can't have. It could send signals that you are broke or cheap and that's a complete turn off to a girl. It could even potentially mean you're stingy and that has a tendency to reflect a lot of things about you as a person. Who knew one little coupon could send all these signals!
For me, I don't care if you pay with a coupon or not, as long as you pay. You shouldn't be making a big production out of paying anyway so why should I see how you've paid? I don't believe I should see anything with regards to a bill when I'm out on a date with a guy. I shouldn't see the bill. I shouldn't see your card. I shouldn't see the money you put in. I shouldn't see the tip you leave. I just believe it should all be discreetly handled, as much as possible. Therefore there shouldn't be an instance where I see the coupon. Unless you make a big deal about it, but then, why would you do that? I don't think you have to lie or be sneaky about it either. And let me just say too that I think any man that makes a big deal about paying, how much he paid, or any thing of the sort is very un-gentelman like.
Tacky *rolls my eyes*.
I'm all about a good discount. There are so many ways to get one these days and it's so easy you'd be dumb not to take advantage of it. I don't care if you got a $20 dinner for 2 coupon from Living Social. All I hear is... 'that means is I can go to BLT Steak?!?' In these times, doing more with less is a great thing. Plus that means you'll have more money to do other things with later on that night or even for the next date. It's just being fiscally responsible.
Ultimately, I think how you've treated your date during the entire evening means more than how you've paid for the date. The amount of money you spend has no correlation to your ability to wine and dine and woo a woman. If you've got enough swag you can wine and dine your date at a burger bar for $2.99. I seriously doubt any good woman will be so turned off by a little coupon that she tosses out all of the great things and connection you've made over the time you've spent out. If she does - red flag. She's not the one you want to spend time with anyway.
(Oh but please understand that while it may be ok....you probably will get talked about and laughed at a bit by your girl and her girls. Not that we don't like you or that it's bad, but it'll be something that will get picked on. Just thought you should know.)
Sunday, November 4, 2012
Coupons on a First Date?
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