I mean really...it's not...

I was driving to work this evening and something I heard on the radio got me thinking about all these self-help people. Why are we listening to them? I think that these people are the ones messing everyone up. They talk as if everything is so ultra complicated. Relationships, dating, marriage and the like. And ladies we take the brunt of it. Making us and the world believe we are these complex creatures of mystery. Give me a break.

I don't think life is supposed to be as hard as the book writers keep making it out to be. Either you like him or you don't. You love him or you don't. You want sex or you don't. It's not that hard. I think that over the years people have managed to convince the masses that in order to have successful relationships it has to be filled with innuendos, secret meanings and what not. I just don't buy into the belief that it's that hard.

Just be up front with each other. Come from a place of honesty and not hate and things will be OK. It's just really not that complicated.