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Sunday, February 24, 2008

No More Drama

10:30 PM |

I'm so tired...I'm so tired......

So it's been a while since I've posted. I could say that it was because I haven't had anything to write. Nothing interesting has come across my desk. Nor have I stumbled across anything worth applying my attention to. But that wouldn't be entirely true. The truth is, I've been too tired to write. Now before I get to far I must say to my friends who support this blog, I'm not saying don't tell me anything ever again. Nor am I saying that I don't want you to share what is going on in your life. I am saying that for the last week or so the only thing I've have the opportunity to wrap my mind upon has been drama. And to be really honest, I'm tired.

Drama is exhausting. And really ladies, I hate to have to say this, but you are the main generators of drama in my world right now. I've always said I need more guy friends and this week my opinion hasn't changed. As a matter of fact it was even confirmed by one of my closest friends. I love my girls to death, but I promise, all they have managed to come to me with this week has been drama. And if I recall correctly, I didn't have this much drama when I chilled with mostly guys.

It's not to say that guys don't have their own drama. They do. They have a lot of it sometimes. But it's not the same as girl drama. Girl drama tends to be irrational, illogical, and emotional making for conversations regarding drama very exhausting. Guy drama just tends to be stupid making conversations regarding their drama funny. However guy drama can lead to a headache from trying to figure out how the drama got started in the first place.

In reality you've made all of the decisions that have lead you to have the drama you have in your life.(or at least the majority of the decisions because drama can come to find you). If I can give any advice it would be:

It's not that serious. All things do not have to be this complex web of innuendos and hidden meanings. Each decision you make every day will not cause a drastic change in how your are emotionally. Sometimes a kiss is just a kiss, and a wink is because he has something in his eye.

Stop. Think (with the head that is on the top of your know the one that consumes food, breathes, watches TV, etc). Then act. That will help you out of a lot of your drama.

Oh and in closing: Just because I don't subscribe to the nonsense of stupid girl drama does not make me mannish. It makes me logical and means I have sense! If you don't want a realistic opinion about what you did, will do, are thinking about, then DON'T ASK ME. I love to help and I will listen (I do that best), but please know that if I think something is stupid and pointless I will say. And you know this because you wouldn't be talking to me about it in the first place.


Kim said...

Just because I don't subscribe to the nonsense of stupid girl drama does not make me mannish. It makes me logical and means I have sense!

Amen to that sister!!! Some women are logical! It's unfortunate we just have to be the voice of reason in the midst of the DRAMA!

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