Before you decide to commit to anything take the thing that bothers you the most, imagine it's 10 times worse, and never changes. Then ask yourself if in 20 years you could see yourself still being OK with it. If you say yes, write down your reason why and engrave both on something you keep. ...just because the reason is true now doesn't mean it will always be, but unless you remember the reason you had at the time, you won't know how you've changed either.