tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post9161570876981622594..comments2024-01-23T03:21:41.347-05:00Comments on Confessions of a Disillusioned Black Girl: RecoveryMiss_Ahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00623414817223777352noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-79771202414272232342010-02-14T13:17:36.119-05:002010-02-14T13:17:36.119-05:00dldlaura, I have to agree with you on the dealing ...dldlaura, I have to agree with you on the dealing with your feelings alone thing. You are right. I too hate being responsible for breaking someone else's heart. I guess when you look at it both sides can be just as hard. On the one hand you have your feelings and someone else's feelings you're coping with. On the other your feelings are your own to bear. And while you may have more control when you're the only one in pain, it still sucks to have to go at recovery alone.Miss_Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00623414817223777352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-86926253212832102862010-01-14T01:32:07.406-05:002010-01-14T01:32:07.406-05:00GGirl, I'd love to know if you figure out the ...GGirl, I'd love to know if you figure out the easiest and fastest way to recovery. I'm not sure healing from a broken heart is even possible; I think it sticks with you forever, hidden in a deep corner of your soul. The key is probably finding a way to let it go and move on, allowing yourself to be happy again, and taking a chance on someone else.<br /><br />On a random note, I think it's actually easier when you're the only one bearing those feelings. If you know the other person is hurting in some way too, that just makes the situation so much more real and difficult to forget. I can control (i.e. manipulate) my own feelings and thoughts so much better if I don't have to worry for another person's heart. I'm selfish that way. Sad, I know. But I hate being responsible for breaking someone else's heart. That hurts more than my own pain :(dldlaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10676101264760063149noreply@blogger.com