tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post8762591625214811462..comments2024-01-23T03:21:41.347-05:00Comments on Confessions of a Disillusioned Black Girl: You, Me & SheMiss_Ahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00623414817223777352noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-44631851950062733962008-03-27T01:53:00.000-04:002008-03-27T01:53:00.000-04:00Drawn to the page by Mr. Stark. Interested in the ...Drawn to the page by Mr. Stark. Interested in the topic.<BR/>Agree with the statement, "the other woman gets a bad rep" but in a devils advocate type of way.<BR/>It's easy to be upset with her, assuming she is a true "other girl" meaning that she has knowledge of wifey or the relationship that he is in. I can't call her a bad person though. Maybe some women should be praising the other woman. Not because she's doing "things" with your man, but because of the fact she is keeping your man...with you! Again we are speaking of the true "other girl" the one that is available all times a day/night when you, being the girl are too tired, or too busy, or have a headache. She's the girl that waste all her damn time being the cheerleader for your man while he's playin' Madden all night with his boys because you didn't want to go. (of course his boys know about her and keep quite. How else would the alibi work)she's the one who does the porno stuff that you feel you are to special to do. Summed up she is everything you are not. But I disagree with saying she's better than wifey. She is just different. She is what you're not. That doesn't necessairly mean she does what you do better. For a true "other girl" does not resemble you in the slightest bit. A true "other girl" would be exactly opposite from you and she assist in the things you don't do. All great teams are great because of the strength of the role players. So for all her assist she should be praised. Sent Christmas and thank you cards. Because she gives your man completeness, and keeps him coming back to you for the other half. It's better to be a starter and come out of the game for a few minutes, than it is to be cut from the team because you lack some of the necessairy skills. Scoring from the bench is valuable, so instead of sitting there mad cause someone else is getting some playing time. Stand up and cheer because in the long run, she's wearing the same jersey and ultimatly helping YOU win. <BR/> Again I'm being the devils advocate on this one. The reason why MR. Stark calls me The Shock Jock. This is not aimed at you either it is intended for the bitter wifeys', but I like where you was goin' on this one. Hot topic...Keep doin' your thing.<BR/>Real Talk.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-73178374304521771062008-03-15T20:05:00.000-04:002008-03-15T20:05:00.000-04:00So.... I don't know if I've read anything lately t...So.... I don't know if I've read anything lately that I agree with more! <BR/>Every other woman ISN'T a terrible woman. There is a difference in a mistress and a one night stand. If a man has a mistress, there is something other than sex that Mr. Man must be searching for and apparently is "finding". IF someone's to be cursed Mr. Man is the best canidate for the chose words.<BR/><BR/>Great post! I love it!!Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02815409071582264296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-69511443643533307672008-03-15T16:28:00.000-04:002008-03-15T16:28:00.000-04:00Right on point!Right on point!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-37950899079180053622008-03-13T10:16:00.000-04:002008-03-13T10:16:00.000-04:00I disagree with the last two sentences. I know you...I disagree with the last two sentences. I know you're not necessarily blaming the woman for her man cheating, but that's the way it sounds. I don't like the whole "She must be giving him something you're not giving him...." excuse because if a man was not happy with his relationship he can LEAVE instead of cheating....<BR/><BR/>But I TOTALLY agree that people blaming the OTHER woman and NOT the married man is RI-D@MN-DICULOUS! He's the one who took vows! Not her. She needs to be cuttin' a nigg@ instead of blaming the other woman.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-85234233613739179102008-03-11T15:10:00.000-04:002008-03-11T15:10:00.000-04:00Your tongue has been sharp of lately 'ole girl ;) ...Your tongue has been sharp of lately 'ole girl ;) nice!Tony Starkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00172880774265104239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-78509996688476102922008-03-11T14:58:00.000-04:002008-03-11T14:58:00.000-04:00I am subject to agree with you on this matter. It ...I am subject to agree with you on this matter. It also brought back conversations I have had with women who "share" men. They both enjoy the guys company they both know the other woman exist but don't mind. To me this sounds like an extremely dangerous situation for any man to be in but hey to each his own.<BR/><BR/>Great post.<BR/><BR/>PeaceA. B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02149483144877994517noreply@blogger.com