tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post7788368887734548455..comments2024-01-23T03:21:41.347-05:00Comments on Confessions of a Disillusioned Black Girl: 80/20Miss_Ahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00623414817223777352noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-75735130974770092102010-08-25T14:52:47.966-04:002010-08-25T14:52:47.966-04:00This 80/20 rule is a good determining factor and h...This 80/20 rule is a good determining factor and helped me to assess my situation and what I was giving/receiving.<br /><br />Although it wasn't presented to me as 80/20 per se, it still holds the same weight. If you are not happy in your relationship most of the time, something is definitely wrong.<br /><br />Could be you're not seeing/appreciating what you have. Could be your trying to make something out of an illusion.<br /><br />Either way, you have to ask the 'hard questions' and be brutally honest about the answers as they are revealed.<br /><br />When I give people relationship advice (only solicited, of course), I always advise them to watch for those famous red flags. Pretending they're not waving in your face will certainly lead you into the danger zone.D-Reddhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727077440792454478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-5281173401563759342010-04-06T22:11:57.402-04:002010-04-06T22:11:57.402-04:00I just happened by your blog, and this post really...I just happened by your blog, and this post really spoke to me! I definitely feel like I can relate to this... I don't want to go looking for the 20!!JenDayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09879472645503396374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17068215.post-18718270948412789682010-03-31T05:07:43.382-04:002010-03-31T05:07:43.382-04:00Your blog has been recommended to us as a intervie...Your blog has been recommended to us as a interviewee's favorite blog!<br /><br />We would like to do an interview with you about your blog for Blog<br />Interviewer. We'd<br />like to give you the opportunity to<br />give us some insight on the "person behind the blog."<br /><br />It would just take a few minutes of your time. The interview form can<br />be submitted online here Submit your<br />interview.<br /><br />Best regards,<br /><br />Mike ThomasMikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06367074658555168887noreply@blogger.com